There are times when
things just don’t work out the way we want it to. Even the though we work harder then anyone
else, we still don’t get the fruit. While others who don’t even care about
winning or losing, end up winning at the end. How is it even possible?
Those who are
accustomed to winning may find such a situation very relevant when they go
through a phase of the inability to win. Sometimes our situation may not be in
our hand. No matter how much work you put in, you don’t get the desired result.
So instead of crying over this spilt milk, how do we put it to our advantage?
Well, let me first tell
you that there is no need to worry because everything is fine. This phase is a
very natural phase that everyone goes through before they do anything great.
This is known as the period of preparation. It is during this period when one
can work on their weaknesses and develop their quick thinking skills. Usually
during this period, people tend to waste their time regretting their losses and
comparing themselves to others who have been enjoying their successes during
this period. But let me just remind you that when you were going through your
period of successes your colleages must have felt the same way!
Wise utilization of
time during the period of preparation would be the most intelligent thing to
do. Remember we are more concerned with turning our failures into success and
not about the success of others. Of course we should learn from their journey
and be happy for them.
Lets start our journey
to success-
- · Note down all the things that you weren’t able to achieve over this period.
- · Write down the points what make you feel are the reasons that pulled you away from your success.
- · Work on those aspects.
- · Keep a note of your progress by keeping a mentor.
- · Do everything it takes to raise in life.
- · Don’t let small obstacles stop you and think of alternatives.
- · Be positive